Top Ten Most Annoying Boss Habits

Annoying Boss Habit number one.  Always having to be right.  Have you ever worked with someone who always had to be right.  In most cultures the opposite of right is wrong.  And no one likes to be wrong even part of the time. 

Why do some people have to be right, often at the expense of others?  If this is behavior spewing from the top office of a business, or anywhere for that matter, it can stifle communication and have a severe impact on innovation and productivity.  No body likes a know it all. 

Part of feeling good about work has to do with what you add in value.  Part of contributing is being recognized for your input.  We want credit for what we do and direction when we get stuck on a task or project.  Our ideas can be very right for enhancing our presence at work.  You might offer high level skills.  Safety.  Profit.  We all offer something of value at work.

Learning about human energy and emotions is something we can all benefit from.  Especially when dealing with any bothersome attitude or behavior at work.  It's not fun to work with someone who always has to be right, especially if it's your boss.  Understanding where they're coming from might shed some light.

Once you recognize why people are "showing up" at work a certain way, it's easier to communicate your feelings to affect a better outcome.  If your boss or anyone at work always has to be right, maybe you can help them see how this affects you.  From a position of wanting to make work a better place, hopefully you can approach him and share how you feel.

Instead of looking at things from right or wrong perspectives, let's work on finding common ground.  And remember, bosses are people too.  Saying the right thing at the right time in the right way just might make a difference.

Cliff Jones

Comments

Erin | October 30, 2007 | 10:47AM
My boss is 82 years old and STILL doesn't want to stop working....He is very forgetful and has very bad eye sight. My job consists of enlarging papers multiple times for my boss so he can see them. His forgetfulness is a major problem. He gets very confused too. It's sort of sad but yet he can be a very grouchy old man so sometimes he tries my nerves. How would you like to work for someone who INSISTS you find a document that he made up in his head....and it does not exist. You know this for a fact, but he can't imagine that he might be mistaken....
Richard Yaoloong | Email | December 21, 2007 | 10:53PM
My direct superior has brought the company to the depths of bankruptcy and he loves to delegate EVERYTHING to all his subordinates, he also has this habit of having an answer to problems based only on past experiences untried and untested.

He cannot handle stress and relies on everyone to deliver tasks. He also doesn't do any check and balance whatsoever that is why all the clients that we sell to has already a growing payables to the company but despite this he still approves credit to all those accounts/clients that do not care to pay us on time. Time will tell as to when we will all pay the price for our bosses lack of foresight and experience.
kjokh | September 19, 2008 | 10:14PM
Yes try not to deal with puppets, pimps. No cure for those GfUfS
asdfadf | September 19, 2008 | 10:17PM
Mentally ill DfAuVcICKO GD
Anne | Email | January 14, 2009 | 1:59PM
I'm having the exact same problem as Erin and I am so stuck. The woman who worked here before me quit because of those reasons Erin mentioned. And when I cannot find documents (that don't exist) he looks and speaks to me as though I were a stupid child. Please give me some advice on this. Do I just need to go to HR and talk to someone?
John Doe | March 23, 2009 | 7:47AM
I have a boss that hovers over me when I am trying to do some thing, he gets super stressed out when things are not to part and cries like a baby. Also he complains about his body hurting or being sick.
Some times he'll try to make some excuses about a project being done, which it isn't or play the dumb act that it is done asking is it done, tell him it isn't. Stays on the phone asking about some dumb question that will take up 20 minutes. After being here for a year and three months I am wore out, also it is sad when he calls I know exactly what he is going to ask. That is my annoying boss...
Gibson | Email | April 1, 2009 | 8:45PM
I work with a boss who is a complete filth.

He does not want to do any work but shows that he does all, uses abusive language like water, and wants everyone to follow him like a puppy, is shifting all important documents out and throws people out of the job without reason and pulls everyone with dirty secrets. On top of that his mistress acts like them queen even with the GM,MD.

Feel like to throw him off the job
Erica | Email | April 23, 2009 | 7:38AM
My boss is the type that always says "Im So Busy" "I have So Much To Do" "I Don't Know How Im Going to Get All of THis Done" I have never In my life seen anyone who claims to be sooo busy. My guess is people who are actually that busy dont talk about how busy they are. She just wants it to be know how busy she is.
Anonymous Angel | Email | September 3, 2009 | 5:06PM
My former supervisor was THE WORST. He constantly made demeaning jokes at my expense. He thought was a comedian. He talked about how great his previous accomplishments were, made me feel like a piece of dirt and every time he was near me, I got a chill down my spine. I silently prayed for a comet to collide with the earth just to avoid him.
I'm sure you know what I mean!

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